.Yet what Astrid doesn't understand but is a truth that both Ortega and O'Hara-- who has 2 kids-- can attest to: The fact that your partnership with your moms and dads changes and advances as you both age, as well as ideally for the better. "Your globe centers around [your children] when they're children [as well as] it is actually so much job however charming," O'Hara states. "Later, you really skip that, considering that then you can not get them to accomplish anything you want all of them to accomplish, due to the fact that they begin cultivating their personal thoughts, their personal viewpoints." And eventually, you wind up in the area O'Hara, whose children reside in their 20s as well as 30s, locates herself right now, capable to gain from her children. "They're only such awesome youthful men," she mentions. "I am actually certainly not their buddy, however I like having chats along with them and also learning more about just how they think about lifestyle.".